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The Art of Sexting on a Premium Platform

The Art of Sexting on a Premium Platform

Being consistent with your hours and your pricing is always beneficial for your income, especially when it comes to pay-per-text services. In my experience, fans love knowing when and how I’m available, so I don’t miss out on opportunities for making money.

A friend in the industry once asked me how I’ve managed to keep myself in the top three earners on SextPanther month after month for the past four to five years and I told them one simple thing: consistency. Since fan messages come directly to my phone via actual texts, I just leave the alerts on and earn money on the go when I’m not at my computer, replying when I get pinged!

When you are setting your pricing up, keep in mind this is a very personal service and you want your clients to come back day after day.

Here are a few other tips and tricks I have learned along the way, that have helped a lot too.

Have Actual Conversations

You have to feel confident in knowing how to start a satisfying phone sex session, but also know how to carry on a personal conversation, because your clients will desire both.

Surprisingly enough, I have made more from just chatting casually than I have from explicit phone sex, by far!

I had to learn from scratch as well, because it wasn't something I had done before. I was so scared in the beginning, that I did not even enable my calls for the first year in fear of what to say. It takes time, but you get there; you can never go wrong with being sexy and sweet.

Less is More, With Pricing

Another important point is … don’t be greedy! I can't overstate this enough. When you are setting your pricing up, keep in mind this is a very personal service and you want your clients to come back day after day. Don’t try to drain them the first day by overpricing yourself.

Overpricing will also scare off potential customers that may have spent with you, had you reduced your price by just a dollar. And keep it consistent; don’t change it up all the time, or they’ll never know what they are going to pay from one day to the next.

Make Them Feel Special

There's nothing worse than thinking you are just another number to someone, so make sure you give all of your customers that personal touch. Make each one feel like they are the only customer you have. Make them feel wanted, so that they look forward to coming back for more.

Spark Interest With Mass Messaging

One very helpful trick is to utilize mass messaging features, which offer you the ability to contact all of your clients at one time. This is a great way to spark interest from your active contacts on a daily basis. Send at least one of these a day; it can be a photo or video with a sexy note attached, something to get people's attention.

Create Platform-Exclusive Content

Offer exclusive photos and videos to make your chosen content platform a must-have for your fans; give them an incentive to pay for a more premium service, rather than messaging free on more readily available platforms.

Be sure to also make full use of content feeds, which is a new feature SextPanther has introduced, allowing models to post photos and videos (free or pay-to-see) directly to your profile page (they can also appear on the main website’s homepage feed, giving you a huge amount of extra exposure to potential new contacts you may not have gotten before).

I can’t wait to see how the rest of my journey unfolds in this industry, because I’ve only grown to love it with each passing year. And with each new thing I learn, it helps me build my brand more and more. Best of luck to those making it work for them; keep doing your thing!

Briana Lee is a top-ranked SextPanther star and “exotic girl next door” who can be followed on SextPanther.com/Briana-Lee and @im_briana_lee on Instagram.

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